Unlike our mothers before us, we in the third third have choices to make — about where we live, what we do, if we volunteer, our impact on the world, what we want to be called, our financial resources, how long one can remain blond, the importance of our relationships, indeed our very quality of life. Lots to explore and discuss.
Somewhere in the transition from a Sunday Styles Page Two column on one topic which I thought was hot gay men on the town (or was it the one that chronicled the family relationships of an insightful, sensitive working mom?)-- I’m sorry, I should know, but I don’t -- anyway, sometime in t...
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Retirement: Week One
It is not that I had not given a lot of thought to my husband’s Retirement from the practice of law after 37 years. He has been talking about it for about two years. It’s not even that I had not laid down a few rules and worked toward...
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Last year about this time, my grown children elicited a promise from me that I would never again post any writings about them without their permission. The word in play at the time was “betrayal,” and they were right.
I’ve kept my word (sort of like Mary...
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DAY ONE
On a bad day – and there are some – Retirement feels like a chronic disease my husband has given me by leaving work at age 61. A chronic disease to which one must adjust and adapt, with symptoms that require changes in lifestyle and, perhaps, diet. A ch...
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My kids say I am a sucker for anything labeled “New” in the grocery store.
And my husband knows that I count season’s tickets to the theater or the symphony more as obligations than as “dates.”
So I am not exactly chained to my comfort zone. But I hadn&r...
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I’m too old to live in a dormitory.
I decided that about ten years ago, at a college class reunion. It wasn’t just that I could no longer stay up all night for the gab sessions. I couldn’t sleep on the wafer-thin mattress and paper-thin sheets. I hadn’t brought my f...
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In today's New York Times octogenarians report on "wing-walking" (on top of an airplane, across the English Channel -- PULL-EASE!), mountain climbing, and other relatively extreme adventures they're exploring in the name of Active Aging. I'm not sure I want to jo...
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